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Need
Marriage is a sanctified bond between husband and wife. The exchange of wedding
vows between bride and groom form a firm foundation for their life-long union.
Since family is the smallest social unit as such cordial relationship between
husband and wife is very conducive to peaceful social set up and healthy
upbringing of the children. Once this relationship breaks it creates many
problems in the society. In recent times, however, due to a large number of
wedding betrayals and marriage frauds, it has become a very complex social issue
which has caught the attention of political thinkers, sociologists and
economists. Unfortunately nothing concrete has been done so far to address this
problem. Under these circumstances, we, who are
intensely touched with remorse on hearing shocking stories of the victims of
marriage frauds, created a society which delves into the root
causes of these marriage break ups, of course with a an ulterior motive
but also provide a recourse to the victims where
they can go to find help, guidance , relief and guidelines as to
what they should do under the circumstances.
Magnitude of the issue
When we talk of victims we think of the aggressor both grooms or brides who have
victimized their spouses, here in Canada or there in India. In the month of
October 2005, some journalists of The Province news paper went to India,
interviewed victims and published their pathetic stories. According to them the
number of victims through out India is 30,000 out of which15000 are in the
Punjab alone. The parents of victims, in most of the cases, have spent a lot of
money, much beyond their means to marry their daughters to greedy grooms from
Canada with the hope that the nuptial would pave a way for others of the family
to immigrate to Canada. The craze to come to Canada paralyses their thinking and
in haste they don’t even bother to enquire the antecedents of their prospective
son-in laws. Virtually the weddings have become an immigration deal. Brides
betraying their grooms is no exception, though the other scenario is more
pronounced.
Implications
In an unabated form the practice is continuing, consequently we witness our
social life in shreds. In broken families the children the children broken
families, are at the mercy of the judges who may give the custody to mother or
father, but certainly not to both of them because as a result of divorce the
family is not living together. Our smallest social unit is the family and in
most of the cases the old parents are a part of the family. Where should they
go, is not answered under the broken family set up. This is against the
basic instinct of giving children the parental affection. They are deprived of
that. What type of children they would become is not difficult to answer. They
may retaliate in one way or the other. Drug addicts, vagabonds, vandals ex
traders are usually the product of such deprivation. (Antisocial)
Immigration
As quickest way of immigration is based on the marriage, the marriage which is
intended to be life long partnership between husband and wife is defeated. The
basis of marriage is other than a sacred yoke. Even those who are well educated
and can comfortably qualify under the skilled workers’ category; calculate that
since immigration is very easy, definite, and quickest way they marry, without
having the slightest inkling that this is going to be a leap in the dark. Such
weddings end up
in divorces .
Legal Aspect.
There is no legislation that protects Canadian Sponsor. After landing of the
couple based on marriage. The sponsor is liable for three years for providing
food, shelter and clothing and other medical expenses of immigrant. Such
immigrants may go on welfare the sponsor emotionally and financially beaks down.
Those who break away are in fact aggressors get the legal protection. The
society would bring such implication of the present legal system to the
legislators and political leaders.
Usually prospective visitors are denied visitor vista because the visa officer
feels that their intention is to stay in Canada and they are mot genuine
visitors. On the contrary the intention of the immigrant spouses have proved
beyond doubt their mal intention. Once they enter Canada, their fraud
which is a manifested form of their intention is safe in the eyes of immigration
department. There is no coordination between the immigration department and the
police. Where should the complaint be sent or to whom. The grievance be
filed is not clear. In most of the cases, if the sponsors take up the case
he/she is invariably implicated by the spouse in most of the cases the sponsor
bears the brunt or charged.
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